Comments on: No Sex in this Relationship http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/ Nigerian Culture, Entertainment, Events, Music, and Social Issues, Naija Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:43:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: nuel http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-4/#comment-114635 nuel Tue, 06 Dec 2011 18:27:46 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-114635 U guys 4get sex is not a guy thing. Its has nothing solely to do with guys. Its only in the Nigerian setting or probably African setting that it is looked at that way. Every girl I dated always asked 4 sex b4 I even voiced it. I can't remembered ever mentioning it 2 any of my previous girlfriends. I did ask one if I had refused 2 sleep with her what she would do, she told me "look, if u had decided 2 hoard sex I would have walked". It depends on the individuals, that is the two people involved in the relationship. U guys 4get sex is not a guy thing. Its has nothing solely to do with guys. Its only in the Nigerian setting or probably African setting that it is looked at that way. Every girl I dated always asked 4 sex b4 I even voiced it. I can't remembered ever mentioning it 2 any of my previous girlfriends. I did ask one if I had refused 2 sleep with her what she would do, she told me "look, if u had decided 2 hoard sex I would have walked". It depends on the individuals, that is the two people involved in the relationship.

]]> By: thatblackguy http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-110975 thatblackguy Tue, 22 Nov 2011 15:55:21 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-110975 masturbation??? masturbation???

]]> By: thatblackguy http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-110974 thatblackguy Tue, 22 Nov 2011 15:54:06 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-110974 nice 1 nice 1

]]> By: thatblackguy http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-110973 thatblackguy Tue, 22 Nov 2011 15:46:27 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-110973 abegy free this babe abeg... Goldie u ROCK!!! test to satisfaction.. when u gurls end up with guys wey no sabi fuck ur eye go clear. abegy free this babe abeg… Goldie u ROCK!!! test to satisfaction.. when u gurls end up with guys wey no sabi fuck ur eye go clear.

]]> By: ahde http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-110698 ahde Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:20:21 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-110698 that's true nij .anyway just wanted to know nij if u don't mind u can check on my FB name Ahdewale falayi. try and mail me or drop ur number for proper discussion that's true nij .anyway just wanted to know nij if u don't mind u can check on my FB name Ahdewale falayi. try and mail me or drop ur number for proper discussion

]]> By: Baby girl http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-4/#comment-110502 Baby girl Mon, 21 Nov 2011 09:33:20 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-110502 Sex is a sacred thing and its a convenant between the two parties involved.hmmmm!but the world is turning to an end wherby the guy will bent on aving sex with you for u to prove it to him dat u love him,and the girl in the other way would nt want to loose the guy simply because he believes the'GUY'is the best he can ever find or comes her way.i strictly take to No sex before marriage and i no alot of girls would do it and even guys can too and stick to their girls if they notice dat she is nt ready to have it with them and the guy is also nt ready to loose their guy,but bcoa we have some animals among we girls who are ready to get down with a guy just for the fun of it,this kind of tin gives a guy an Ego to leave his girl and go after the cheap one all bcos of sex. Sex is a sacred thing and its a convenant between the two parties involved.hmmmm!but the world is turning to an end wherby the guy will bent on aving sex with you for u to prove it to him dat u love him,and the girl in the other way would nt want to loose the guy simply because he believes the’GUY’is the best he can ever find or comes her way.i strictly take to No sex before marriage and i no alot of girls would do it and even guys can too and stick to their girls if they notice dat she is nt ready to have it with them and the guy is also nt ready to loose their guy,but bcoa we have some animals among we girls who are ready to get down with a guy just for the fun of it,this kind of tin gives a guy an Ego to leave his girl and go after the cheap one all bcos of sex.

]]> By: janny http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-96884 janny Fri, 30 Sep 2011 15:28:35 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-96884 You are a fool, a girl for dat matter. Please stop disgracing us You are a fool, a girl for dat matter. Please stop disgracing us

]]> By: ms. d4dee http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-87454 ms. d4dee Thu, 25 Aug 2011 22:40:16 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-87454 very well said ms ola blessed. I can so relate to that. very well said ms ola blessed. I can so relate to that.

]]> By: Kay http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-41642 Kay Thu, 24 Feb 2011 21:18:10 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-41642 ......i think some people are getting it wrong..................the fact that ladies want to abstain does not mean that they do not like sex............everyone does................its an issue of self control..............every person who decides that abstinence is the way takes up a challenge the very second they decide to.......... i am veryy pro-abstinence because i look at it both religiously and from a self point of view.............i have been searching for reasons why abstinence would be the wrong way but i cant seem to find any, therefore, it is the way i choose to go....... ive thought of it and to me the reason why sex is has been brought down to what it has is because marrige has been brought down too..............we have lost our definition of the union in marriage & down came the definition of sex with it........ i though of it & said to myself, if i start having sex before i get married because i feel i love the person i'm with, then whats the use of geting married?? the big wedding day??? officially saying that u love each other??? theres much more to marriage.....its the beginning of a bond, not the miiddle of it, & that bond finds its centre in sex................. & this is my humble opinion ……i think some people are getting it wrong………………the fact that ladies want to abstain does not mean that they do not like sex…………everyone does…………….its an issue of self control…………..every person who decides that abstinence is the way takes up a challenge the very second they decide to……….

i am veryy pro-abstinence because i look at it both religiously and from a self point of view………….i have been searching for reasons why abstinence would be the wrong way but i cant seem to find any, therefore, it is the way i choose to go…….
ive thought of it and to me the reason why sex is has been brought down to what it has is because marrige has been brought down too…………..we have lost our definition of the union in marriage & down came the definition of sex with it……..

i though of it & said to myself, if i start having sex before i get married because i feel i love the person i'm with, then whats the use of geting married?? the big wedding day??? officially saying that u love each other??? theres much more to marriage…..its the beginning of a bond, not the miiddle of it, & that bond finds its centre in sex……………..

& this is my humble opinion

]]> By: Kay http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-41640 Kay Thu, 24 Feb 2011 21:04:03 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-41640 Okay, Ms Ola Blessed you speakkk wayy tooo much sense.lol......i keep scrolling to find ur comments.....im totallyyy with u, girll!! Keep it up! God is with us! its not just a religious thing, it is a thing of self...........im 17 and praying about everything i will ever do with my life, love, & body......................i believe it is well............people who have abstained have not died - we can do it! Okay, Ms Ola Blessed you speakkk wayy tooo much sense.lol……i keep scrolling to find ur comments…..im totallyyy with u, girll!! Keep it up! God is with us! its not just a religious thing, it is a thing of self………..im 17 and praying about everything i will ever do with my life, love, & body………………….i believe it is well…………people who have abstained have not died – we can do it!

]]> By: Kay http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-41638 Kay Thu, 24 Feb 2011 20:52:22 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-41638 lolll! Get emmm Goldiiee!! lolll! Get emmm Goldiiee!!

]]> By: Truth Teller http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-37591 Truth Teller Wed, 09 Feb 2011 15:23:01 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-37591 Call me whatever you want but one thing I know for sure is that Sex / fornication/ immorality/ masturbation are not the only sins, agreed ,but would lead many many souls to eternal damnation where there would be no time to repent. I'm not a saint but to be alive at this moment means to me that I have another chance to do the right thing, likewise everyone reading this!We've all had our pasts,and thanks goodness God is not man to condemn anyone,so wether you're a ho,playa,or just plain immoral,gOd does not condemn yu if you repent - It's a brand new begining for true repenters. No matter how we try to justify it in this generation, Sex is worth waiting for with our life partners,not even with our fiance/fiancee. Call me whatever you want but one thing I know for sure is that Sex / fornication/ immorality/ masturbation are not the only sins, agreed ,but would lead many many souls to eternal damnation where there would be no time to repent. I'm not a saint but to be alive at this moment means to me that I have another chance to do the right thing, likewise everyone reading this!We've all had our pasts,and thanks goodness God is not man to condemn anyone,so wether you're a ho,playa,or just plain immoral,gOd does not condemn yu if you repent – It's a brand new begining for true repenters. No matter how we try to justify it in this generation, Sex is worth waiting for with our life partners,not even with our fiance/fiancee.

]]> By: Sealleguaft http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-33636 Sealleguaft Fri, 07 Jan 2011 01:04:55 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-33636 why not:) why not:)

]]> By: Chikwas http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-24887 Chikwas Tue, 12 Oct 2010 13:32:59 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-24887 Sex is the price women have to pay for marriage and Marriage is the price that men have to pay for sex Sex is the price women have to pay for marriage and Marriage is the price that men have to pay for sex

]]> By: Sunshyyne http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-15471 Sunshyyne Thu, 24 Jun 2010 10:42:12 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-15471 Good opinion Emba, But u r not a guy but a boy yo. 18? Wat do u know? Loverkid. Stay on d sidelines & listen to words of wisdon K? Good opinion Emba,

But u r not a guy but a boy yo.

18? Wat do u know? Loverkid.

Stay on d sidelines & listen to words of wisdon K?

]]> By: T.J http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-13212 T.J Thu, 20 May 2010 14:57:54 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-13212 SEX IS PART OF LIFE WITCH WE CANT RESIST FROM XPECIALLY IN RELATIONSHIP FOR ME OOOOOOOOO.................I MUST TEST THE CAR BEFORE I BUY AM..........COS E DON HAPPEN TO ME............I BUY A CAR N SAY I NO GO DRIVE AM UNTIL XMAS.............UNFORTUNATE FOR ME IT WAS STOLLEN ON XMAS EVE. TALKING FROM XPERIECE SEX IS PART OF LIFE WITCH WE CANT RESIST FROM XPECIALLY IN RELATIONSHIP

FOR ME OOOOOOOOO……………..I MUST TEST THE CAR BEFORE I BUY AM……….COS E DON HAPPEN TO ME…………I BUY A CAR N SAY I NO GO DRIVE AM UNTIL XMAS………….UNFORTUNATE FOR ME IT WAS STOLLEN ON XMAS EVE.

TALKING FROM XPERIECE

]]> By: Macaulay Dante http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-10571 Macaulay Dante Mon, 22 Mar 2010 08:16:23 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-10571 See let me say my mind.its this way if you want sex before marriage go for a girl that is compatable with that and if you dont want then seek the one affiliated to your needs,but to my expirence in life sex,is essential its the spice of a lasting relationship.and why i say so is because my ex-girlfriend left me because she says,she want someone to make her feel the sensational erotic expirence.so thats my view. See let me say my mind.its this way if you want sex before marriage go for a girl that is compatable with that and if you dont want then seek the one affiliated to your needs,but to my expirence in life sex,is essential its the spice of a lasting relationship.and why i say so is because my ex-girlfriend left me because she says,she want someone to make her feel the sensational erotic expirence.so thats my view.

]]> By: Emba http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-10117 Emba Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:11:35 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-10117 mehn..i am strongly behind u..sex isnt the way in relationship..i have worked by that and i am a guy of 18yrs mehn..i am strongly behind u..sex isnt the way in relationship..i have worked by that and i am a guy of 18yrs

]]> By: teriba hamed http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-10045 teriba hamed Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:55:43 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-10045 same is happening to me,but just want you all to know is needed bcos sex should not be justify like we the guys also have no balls that should be appreciated even if yours is.(no hard feeling). same is happening to me,but just want you all to know is needed bcos sex should not be justify like we the guys also have no balls that should be appreciated even if yours is.(no hard feeling).

]]> By: stacey http://www.jaguda.com/2009/06/22/no-sex-in-this-relationship/comment-page-3/#comment-9604 stacey Wed, 17 Feb 2010 21:31:06 +0000 http://www.jaguda.com/?p=1481#comment-9604 Girl im with u on dis 1 ... na wa NAIJA guysz in yankee oo ... The thing don tire me self. The worst part is that the people asking for sex are the same useless men that do not do anything to your life .. (The don't contribute to ur living or anything like that) ... Most of them are just rather useless to me but YET they want u 2 JUMP & ask them HW HIGH in the process Sex should NOT be the determining factor in a relationship ... If a Lady wants to have sex in a relationship then fine but if not .. wat d heck is d big deal?? Girl im with u on dis 1 … na wa NAIJA guysz in yankee oo … The thing don tire me self. The worst part is that the people asking for sex are the same useless men that do not do anything to your life .. (The don't contribute to ur living or anything like that) … Most of them are just rather useless to me but YET they want u 2 JUMP & ask them HW HIGH in the process

Sex should NOT be the determining factor in a relationship … If a Lady wants to have sex in a relationship then fine but if not .. wat d heck is d big deal??

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