Comments on: Ashewo Dancing

By: Kay

Kay — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 20:49:16 +0000

…hmmm…………….its pretty interesting how we all have different views on stuff like this……….
i kinda lean towards the authors side though- i pretty much agree with him…………

i've been to parties where its been crazy & all the time i would try to be on my own & avoid the excessive body to body, however there was one time when i went al out with the dancing cause i was drawn into believing it was "just dancing", but really guys, its not……………i didnt feel to great as i lay in bed later that night because i didnt know what to think of myself………

some of the grinding is tooooo much (its basically sex with clothes on) & once a guy has u there i dont think he needs u in his bedroom…………i also thought of it thatt all that dancing would not even tell well of me……..i love to be respected & i wanna earn it – to me, i'll earn that by keeping myself away 4rm stuff that carry that "cheap,easyy, thirstyyy girl" message…………..

P.S.,,…..ladies, just cause he wants it does not mean he should get it…………he will respect u 4 that……..

By: elnuk

elnuk — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 19:25:57 +0000

Let just hope the up and coming generation dont dance worse, cuz it seems like dancing has evolved and will continue to.

By: Hmm!!

Hmm!! — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 09:56:26 +0000

When a chick did to me bak in medskool parry I won craze, I was a serious novice na me dey karry ma iroko run sef lol!!!

By: ms_teacher

ms_teacher — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 05:41:15 +0000

i hear ya

By: kicksknowledge

kicksknowledge — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 18:45:18 +0000

it won't be very easy for my kids to findout if i bumped n grinded or not and even if they did, i would always use the words my dad used on me to deter me from doing the crazy things he did in his past…. "if i put my hand in fire, does that mean that you do the same?"

By: ms_teacher

ms_teacher — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 07:12:07 +0000

bump and grind…aint heard that since r.kelly back in the day. lol. any who, i'll admit i dance kinda…provacatively, at the club with guys. but hey, it can't be no worse than dancing side by side. i've seen some chicks do some dances all by themselves that have dudes drooling out the side of their mouths. that aint no better than dancing on a guy. either way, its gonna get the same effect/response.

By: ms_teacher

ms_teacher — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 07:06:25 +0000

just don't let ur kids ever find out that you used to drop it like nobody's biz back in ur day…cuz they WILL condemn u. lol.

By: kicksknowledge

kicksknowledge — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 04:44:23 +0000

please i support everyone that said that there's nothing wrong with bumpin and gridin. but ummm i also support you that my future female kids better not come back into my house after bumpin n grindin on some horny dude.see…am so not biased…

By: mags

mags — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 07:29:20 +0000

grinding on ur boyfriend i think is ok or sum dude ur knw personally n r interested in ; of course this will send a desired message…… aside from dat random grinding aint d P mehn …..

By: lilkunta

lilkunta — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 08:55:45 +0000

I think a lady rubbing her *ss on a man's genitals is NOT appropriate. Every now & then back to front dancing is fine, but rubbing in sexual manner–which is what is prevalent– is NOT appropriate.

By: ladex

ladex — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 13:12:34 +0000

Lets just be realistic…..it's really upsetting when we wanna dance with a guy , they start protruding their waist like clubbibg and dancing will not be complete if they dont rub against a chic's behing or something….But truth be told…it will not stop….there are alot of horny, restless pple out there who just wont quit….

By: ripa

ripa — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 23:14:46 +0000

nasty, just plain nasty!

By: sincere

sincere — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 12:27:03 +0000

I actually love the bumping and grinding,but please do not let the iroko disturb the lady,it's quite uncomfortable

By: Maltina

Maltina — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:32:46 +0000

There is nothing wrong with Grinding..as long as you grind in a PG-13 way:)

And guys if you know you are going to dance in a club..please endeavor to wear some tight underwear…its very disgusting to be dancing and be feeling one kain thing swinging away.

By: Meyonce

Meyonce — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:28:19 +0000

lmao..lmao..oh my gush so true

By: Sanka

Sanka — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:19:23 +0000

If we don't gravitate now, u start complaining that there are no "real men" in this town!

By: Sanka

Sanka — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:16:39 +0000

Original Mgbeke…why I go turn am to face me, we wan kiss abi we wan fight? We not acting like only the girls grind…heck, I love grinding but biko y'all shld stop wearing those spiked belts & underwears that steal buttons in da club and mellow down on the ass vibration!

By: Sanka

Sanka — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:13:31 +0000

This guy…I no dey go grocery store now!

By: Sage

Sage — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 02:50:03 +0000

The Double Prince bumps n grinds,will not be hypocritical but will not let his unborn daughters do same.Let me ask you,how about your unborn sons and don't you think you will reap what you sow?

By: bubble

bubble — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:44:04 +0000

na wa oh,degrading, yes.both parties wrong, yeah……truly true story.