Loading ...I’m F’ing a Married Woman
Relationships — By OpenBook on March 11, 2010 11:03 am
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It’s been a while since anything came by our openbook email, but suddenly this one came through and I must say it’s quite the story. Read this from our anonymous openbook writer, and throw some advice if any…Me I don’t know what to tell the guy that he doesn’t already know.
From the title, it’ll seem a little crude and brash what I’m trying to say, but it is the truth I speak. I am f*cking a married woman, or shall I say, a “happily” married woman. I know I need to stop, and there is no good end to a story like this, but I just can’t seem to help myself. Before we all throw stones, I think it’s important to understand how all this came about.
It all started about 2 years ago. I was out with my friends for a Nigerian Independence day gathering at a joint in Kano, when I spotted an extremely beautiful, bright skinned woman that has just walked in. She didn’t look like she was there to hang, but rather to get suya and leave. She wasn’t dressed in a flashy way, and pretty much looked like she had just strolled out of the house casually. I sat there observing her for a little while, and then one of my guys just said “Ole boy, enter the babe now, if u wan enter… no just dey there dey look.” I approached her, and after a short conversation we exchanged numbers and she dashed off as she said she was not supposed to be out for long. That was how I met Bose.
A couple of days later, we chatted on the phone, and exchanged a few text messages and eventually decided to meet up for drinks and suya at the same joint we met at. We chatted, gisted and just generally connected. We were so in tune with each other that I was beginning to really like her already, and then she told me something I wasn’t prepared for. That she had just recently separated from her husband, and was steal dealing with the overwhelming shock and social stigma of it. At 28, she explained that she was a mother of 2, with no husband. In her words, “not what I would’ve thought of the day I got married.” We continued our drinks, and after a while we were both pretty tipsy. I decided to drop her off at her place. The house was a big family size house, and I remember wondering if she just bought/rented it after the divorce or the ex-husband vacated the residence for her. It seemed a little odd to have such a nice place shortly after a divorce, but whatever. I walked her to the door, and was just going to settle for a hug, when all of sudden she grabbed me and began to kiss me, and before I knew what was happening we were rolling into her living room, undressing along the way, and baam… we were f**king on the couch. As weird as it felt, I loved every second of it. She did things that night, that I would never have thought she’d be so comfortable doing. After cuddling and kissing for a little while, we both passed out on the cold marble floor.
Next morning, she wakes me up sharply and tells me I need to leave as her family members were coming, and so I quickly put on my clothes, and ran out of the house. She promised she would call me, but that I shouldn’t call her as she doesn’t want her family to think she is already dating again shortly after her separation. I agreed and let it be. Heck, I was still in pleasant shock from what transpired the night before and was ready to drop the gist to my padis asap.
Weeks passed and still no call from Bose, and after I sent a couple of text messages that received no reply, I decided to forget about her. I was at the joint again one day to go get suya for some visitors at my place when I saw Bose again…. looking extra fine as always and with 2 young toddlers. I approached and she smiled and apologized for not calling me back, and said she would soonest. I definitely didn’t think I’ll be getting a text message less than an hour after we saw… “My family is still at my house… Can you meet me at Kabo Hotel in 2 hrs?” 2.5 hours later we were at the master suite in Kabo hotel having wild sex once again. Next morning I wake up alone, with a note by the bed, with Bose saying she had to get back home before everyone in the house woke up. At this point, I started suspecting that something fishy was up… that she might not be entirely honest about things, but I quickly buried that suspicion. After all she’s not my wife or girlfriend so I have no right to question her so to speak.
This random, and spontaneous sex-capades continued for about 6 months. I’d get a call or text from her and we’d hook up and f*ck. That’s what I call it, cos that is exactly what it was. Very little conversation for the most part, and I liked the thrill of it. Which guy wouldn’t like no-strings attached sex?
All seemed ok, until one day I was looking through a recently published Ovation magazine only to see a picture of Bose with a well built heavy looking man, and underneath, the caption read Chief & Mrs blah blah blah at the opening ceremony of some boutique that was recently opened. I tried to calculate in a way that it must’ve been before we met, but this boutique was opened a few months ago. She’s married. That little bug in me that told me something wasn’t right is actually a reality. A Big Reality. I sent her a text and demanded to know if she was married and without any extra explanation, she simply replied, “Yes, I am.” I was sooo disguted with myself and her that I swore not to see her again and immediately deleted her number.
A couple of weeks later, a call comes in and it’s Bose on the other line… she pleads with me and explains to me that they are trying to work it out, and after a couple of mins of talking tells me that she needs me, and as weak of a person that I am, I agreed to meet her at her place. Her husband was out of town on business. Another wild f**king session happened, and this time the house was empty so we explored every corner of the house. From the kitchen, to the living room, the master bedroom and in the jacuzzi. It was as if we were trying to get it in for the last time. Except that it wasn’t the last time.
The routine was back on, and we’d hook up and f**k at her convenience and seeing that I am single, I wasn’t feeling like I was cheating on anyone. The bad feeling that I do have though is much worse, and that is that karma will come back to bite me. I’m sexually addicted to a married woman and I don’t know how to end it. Each time I tell myself I’m done, she calls and just like that, I’m in her again. It also seems like recently I’ve run into her and her husband a little more than usual and each time we see in public when she is with her husband we pretend like we don’t know each other…. like we are total strangers. I look at him and feel like crap, because I know I could easily be in his shoes. From the outside he looks like he takes care of his business as a husband and father, and from all indication doesn’t seem to have outside babes.
But I’m just addicted to Bose’s body. The sex is incredible and in all honesty, I’m not ready to just let it go like that. But I feel like one day I’ll get caught in the act. I’m hooked, and even if I tried to stop, all it takes is her request and I’ll come running back. I need advice. Do I need to move? Do I need therapy? I feel like I know the right thing to do, but I can’t get myself to doing it. Any advice will help.
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29 Comments
bros, comot eye now!! av u heard of magun, a witchcraft spell placed by dis olowo men on their trophy wives without the women’s knowledge? jus las year in an ibadan hotel man weh deh do d same ting somersaulted 1nce 2ce 3ce n den gbosa!! best believe dis olowo know oo, possibly yr padi don tell am for alikkle kudi, bros no teh 4 dat toto o, waka far now!!
Fist of all, u made a mistake, not finding out who she really was b4 jumping into bed wit her cuz u wanted to taste her recipe b4 its gets sour. Traditionally religiously its an abomination b4 man n God.. My mom once told me, sleeping wit a marriead woman is like sleeping wit ur own mother. So cut every contact u have wit her now asap. B4 u spend ur whole life in regreat.
Tales from moonlight. You guys decided to meet at the same suya spot and later on you dropped off in her big house. It’s either she wallked to the suya joint and you drove or she didnt know how to drive even though she has got a big house. This story doesnt add up
what if he picked her up for the date?
We don’t know this ladies situation. Maybe she loves everything about her husband, but he is not giving her the goods. Maybe something has happened to him and he is no longer able to give her what she needs, but she still wants to be with him. Who knows?
As for this young fellow, he should remove himself from the situation.
This is one you might want to forget about. As they say, everyday for the thief one day for the owner and that day may not go so well. If you really want it to end, try changing your number at least that way she cant contact you and if you do see her in public with her man.. RUN!
your title is misleading, it should read ‘a married woman is fucking me’ cos you are being used by this lady as she obviously controls the situation… i would advise you to run cos you are no different from a lady who is being fucked by a married man and goes back to his wife at night.
all i can say is that chief must not catch you as i am very sure your mother loves you.
Keep on!! that rich man will have your balls for dinner one of these days..all he needs to do is get a whiff of his pretty thang dipping out and you’re toast.
People talking about blackmailing–she should be the one worried about being blackmailed…She’s the one married and to a ‘big’ man too.
Shameless woman giving women everywhere a bad name. mschewww
Firstly, what goes around very often comes around, and like Newbie99 said, you don’t want to mess with an influential man’s wife, cos he could make your life hell. I wouldn’t be worried about blackmail as long as you stop meeting up with her, because she would have to expose herself in order to expose you. And btw, I can’t stop thinking of the fact that I grew up living pretty much across the street from Kabo hotel… lol!…
Well, i think you are in a very dangerous position right now, because as much as the right thing to do will be stop, there is no telling whether she would try to blackmail you once you decide you are done with her just to keep herself safe from any embarrassment so at this point. So its up to you to make a decision one way or the other and brace yourself for whatever consequences come with it.
Wow…this is something. I commend him for having a conscience sha cause most people would say its not me she/he made a vow to. Openwriter…I’d say try and let this one go, it won’t end well especially for you. Her hubby seems like a big powerful man and I don’t think messing with his wife can result in anything short of bodily harm lol. Seriously, try and let it go…i don’t know how else to tell you that it is a bad idea. Like you said, this could be you once you get your own wife. I wish you all the best sha, but don’t contribute to this homewrecker’s (I don’t care if her husband is cheating or not giving it to her, she should work that out in her home instead of looking for thrills outside) indulgences. You are more than just a piece of meat…have some shame about yourself.