Lives in MD, works in VA, and plays in DC...thus making her the true definition of a tri-state chica. Undercover hater, professional people watcher. Loves: Good food, good music, and hot men.

Nigerians in America – The Big Divide??

I think that in the US of A, there are 2 main sets of Nigerians, which are namely: The ‘I was born and raised here’ aka My parents are Nigerian, but I’m American. The ‘I was born and raised in Nigeria, and only moved to the US of A to attend college’ Apparently, there’s a [...]

The Modification Game

In this game of relationships and what have you, how honest should you be with your partner? The other day, the Oga Jaguda himself hopped on Verastic’s radio show and asked why women lie about certain things. One of those things included the number of sexual partners that a woman has been with.   According to [...]

Paying for the date.

It’s the year 2009 and with each passing year, more ‘Independent Women’ anthems seem to be hitting the airwaves. We ladies are feeling like ‘we got our own’ and in general, feeling more financially independent. Which brings me to the topic of today… As we dey here, dey do ‘Ms. Independent’, are we adopting that [...]

No Sex in this Relationship

Hey guys, Mgbeks here! Lately I’ve been pondering on this issue of sex in a relationship and why it is SO important to men. I keep having conversations with guys who insist that if their girls aren’t giving it up then she got to go. They say things like ‘body no be firewood o’ or [...]

Approaching a man…

Ladies, it’s 2009…what are your thoughts on approaching a man? Do you still sit back, cross your legs and act cute and hope that he’ll notice you batting your eyes at him? Or do you take matters into your own hands and step to him. Guys, what do you think about ladies approaching you? Do [...]