Archive for the ‘Relationships’ Category
“What Are We?” The Most Dreaded Question In The Bedroom
Disclaimer: For all ye advocates of no casual sex / no sex without commitment etc, kindly comot ya nonsense yeye eyes for this post make I no take pen chuk am for you!!! For the “body no be firewood” anthem singers, abeg make una congregate & hear, share & advice on your horror stories. I’ve [...]
MEMOIRS OF A LOVER: THAT BLOODY CONDOM (PART II) by Qhen
“you can’t be my dad”….”mum, tell this man to get out of our house”…”well, you wanted me aborted, good she didn’t” ….that’s my three year old son yelling at me when I first saw him. Let me take you back four years before this incident, I met shontell in one of my trips to London, [...]
The Modification Game
In this game of relationships and what have you, how honest should you be with your partner? The other day, the Oga Jaguda himself hopped on Verastic’s radio show and asked why women lie about certain things. One of those things included the number of sexual partners that a woman has been with. According to [...]
The Ring On My Finger Makes Me 10 Times More Attractive
We’ve all heard this before… Well some of us – Mostly guys though. The fact that having a wedding band on your finger automatically makes you 10 times more attractive. Sometimes, just having a girlfriend is enough sef. I’m not sure if most girls will agree with me… some might downright tell me to get [...]
Top 3 Reasons Why Couples Divorce
Divorce is an ugly thing. It is scary to know that 50 to 60% of newly weds get divorced. Not all marriages fail for the same reason but there are reasons that are most common than others. Why do people divorce? M.I.S.: Money, infidelity, sex. Money: Whether we admit it or not, money problems are [...]
Memoirs Of A Lover: That Bloody Condom (Part I)
Oh I saw this coming, where on earth did I put this bloody condom
Marriage: “do or die?” or “do or live?”
I honestly do not understand why marriage is viewed as a do or die affair. marriage is no one’s last bus stop but some people make it seem so. why is it that in the Nigerian society marriage seems to be so crucial. this obviously causes desperation in men and women… yeah i said it, [...]
For Better, But No Worse Please
I wonder what goes on in the minds of men who decide that after making promises to move heaven and earth, find that heaven is too far and earth is too heavy. I’m talking about marriage and divorce. Ok, it’s not a ‘biggie’ in the western world, but for where I’m from, it’s a taboo that [...]
Sex During Pregnancy
Pregnant? Congratulations!!!! We all know what it takes to become pregnant but let’s fast forward a little bit here. You had sex and a few days later, you missed your period, and your belly started getting bigger. Now, you want to know if it is both safe for you and your unborn child to still [...]
Wor Wor United
Have you ever met a wor wor babe before? I mean like really wor wor… The one wey the wor wor dey shout with loud speaker. Like the one that will make you sing “how could you be so wor wor?” (In kanye west’s heartless tune). Yeah I know the babe must be really wor [...]


