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2 years ago

It Ends Tonight (Part 2)

… It ends tonight, thinking to myself. All the guilt and anguish I feel will go with the night. I place my glass of drink on the ...

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2 years ago

She Makes Way More Than Me! Problem?

… So this has been a subject of discussion many a times when the matter of dating and marriage comes up with our dear Nigerian ...

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2 years ago

It Ends Tonight

… I walk into my living room and make my way slowly towards the bar. I fix myself a glass of Jack Daniel’s on the rocks. I sit ...

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2 years ago

How Much Older Is Too Old?

… After my last post on Jaguda.com I told myself that I’m not sure anyone wants to hear my mouth again. I received plenty ...

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2 years ago

How To Find a GOOD man?

… How to find a GOOD man? WARNING! This article contains highly valuable material on finding a ‘GOOD’ man. If you are not a ...

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2 years ago

Love Today, Hate Tomorrow

Words can not begin to express or buttress the fact that ‘there is a thin line between LOVE and HATE.’ Sometimes people are the ...

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2 years ago

Is It A Syndrome?

… It has come to my knowledge that boys no longer do ‘the chase’, they now just move with the flow and expect things ...

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2 years ago

I Don’t Like His Friends

… They say birds of the same feather flock together and many times I feel like it’s true but in this instance I hope ...

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2 years ago

Karma

… It is 9am on Saturday morning. The rays of the sun coming into my room woke me up. I can smell fried egg coming from the ...

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2 years ago

End That Relationship!

I have come to realize (after various attempts) that having a relationship is hard work and requires patience. Every relationship has ...

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2 years ago

Daddy Issues

… On fathers’ day I spent a few hours going through e-cards trying to decide on one to send to my father. We don’t have the ...

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2 years ago

What Exactly Do Women Want?

… What exactly do women want? I have asked myself this question numerous times and I have tried hard to figure it out. Truth be ...

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2 years ago

Open Letter To Nigerian Men

... Now, there is a common mindset among y’all (men of course). You believe that being male is the only qualification you need, so ...


2 years ago

Be My Valentine

... 1year, 4months, 2weeks, 3days and 16hours… That was exactly how long they had been together She kept track of it mainly ...


2 years ago

Please Don’t Leave Me

... It’s around 11pm at night, and Tina is sitting on my lap as we both watch some random show in ekpo ref (UNN). All seems ...


2 years ago

Enough

... 10:30am Rita stretched slowly. she felt so much pain in her head, her legs, in fact everywhere. It felt like she had been crushed ...


2 years ago

The Best Friend

... I’m writing :). Seems like it’s been a while since I actually wrote something besides “Check this song ...


3 years ago

Open Marriages, A Do

... So I came across this lengthy but interesting article about parenting in an open marriage. It really got me thinking about the ...


3 years ago

Is Multi-Dating A Good Idea?

... I think the biggest reason for multi dating is perspective. When you are dating one partner your judgment seems to more clouded ...


3 years ago

The Art Of S-Texting

… Hey!! It’s 2012. Technology has helped us in every aspect of life and with that also comes more creative ways to do the ...


3 years ago

Do Men Love Bitches?

... Breaking News: Men love Bitches. So, women regularly call men dogs, men return the favor referring to women as bitches. I am ...


3 years ago

Men Get Abused Too

... I have heard and read several stories of men who beat their wives and irreparably hurt their women with violent words, insults, ...


3 years ago

Therapy for the Broken Hearted

... I think it is a little unfair to call someone a liar when they break your heart. With emotions running through high tension ...


3 years ago

5 First Date Don’ts For Men

... Ladies, have you ever been on a date with a guy and he is just dropping the ball left, right and center? And guys, please ...


3 years ago

LIFE’s Surprises

... Interestingly enough Ebun had been waiting for his call. He was the love of her life or at least had been the love of her life for ...


3 years ago

War

... They had delayed take-off and the passenger filled plane was abuzz with chatter and you couldn’t blame them, the flight had ...


3 years ago

Mekus Chronicles III

Mekus Chronicles III is back and in the time I have been gone I’ve grown up a bit. My opinion on a number of issues have changed. ...


3 years ago

The Night Before

... You all watched Sex and the City, the Movie right? Of course you did. I mean, why wouldn’t you have? For those of you then who ...


3 years ago

The Manly Assortment : THE ASPIRANT

  ... During my twenty-six years I’ve been toasted by a variety of men. I still get a surprising range – from pre-teens ...


3 years ago

What Goes Around…..Part 2

WHAT GOES AROUND PART 2 ... …………….The jolt shocked Kunle out of his thoughts. Mr.Alao the driver and his brother Kayode ...


3 years ago

What Goes Around … Part 1

... Doesn’t have to come around.(Notification: This is a 5 part series) As Kunle Cole waited for his twin brother Kayode to ...


3 years ago

The Engagement Ring Should Be…

... So a few days ago, there was this whole debate on twitter about how much a guy should spend on an engagement ring for his soon to ...


3 years ago

What Is Your Expiration Date?

... Recently I went to a get together – the usual Nigerian affair. A mingle of long weave, suggestive smiles and glances, ...


3 years ago

10 Pickup Lines and Rebuttals

... Nowadays, especially with the availability of new beauty products available to us not to mention the clothes and various fashion ...


3 years ago

Blackberry Dilemma

... I had been the proud owner of a blackberry for quite a while, but the blackberry messenger tool had just started heavily catching ...


3 years ago

Are Nigerian Women Being Cheated

... I recently received an email that made me sit up and think. A friend of mine is in the process of getting her British citizenship, ...


3 years ago

My Ride Or Die Chick. . .

... Please pay attention to the PHRASES IN QUOTATION ” ” for a more enjoyable read…Thanks!   As a typical ...


3 years ago

Who Is Whose Daddy?

... Amongst my friends I rant a lot about tons of really random stuff, ideals, and situations. Please bear with me as in the coming ...


3 years ago

The Slut Line

... I was listening to a radio station this morning and the discussion came about. At what point does one become a slut? According to ...


3 years ago

Mekus Chronicles II ….

Nna men this girl don erase me from her life. A whole ME, Eziokwu?  Does she know who I am? These were the initial thoughts that ran ...


3 years ago

Ecclesiastical Wahala

... Imagine this scenario. A young girl comes to her parents…”Mum, Dad…I met someone and we`ve seen been seeing each ...


3 years ago

Mekus Chronicles

MEKUS SPEAKS… It was just another Sunday; I was at attending a get together at friend’s house when a cute caramel skin girl ...


3 years ago

Would You Confess?

... Cheating is something that always causes a lot of emotions amongst men and women. Men accuse women of cheating, and women just ...


3 years ago

Relationship, abi Chillationship??

... Thinking about the guys that have toasted me in the past,or are currently toasting me now, I have come to realise that guys have ...


3 years ago

A Matter of Opinion

... It is no longer news that we are living today in an age dominated by all kinds of public opinions. Opinion polls can give ...


3 years ago

What Is Healthy?

... What constitutes a healthy relationship? Would we know one when we see it? Better yet, would we know what an unhealthy ...


3 years ago

The Ring Doesn’t Mean A Thing

... Newlyweds, happily married, “working things out”, or plain confused, describes the status of countless marriages.  What is ...


3 years ago

It’s Over

... “You don’t call me anymore…” “You only call me when you want to have sex…” “I ...


3 years ago

Opening Up The Relationship

... Yep. When I say opening up the relationship, I actually do mean having an open relationship. A friend and I were having a ...


3 years ago

Is It Really Worth It?

... While heading home in traffic yesterday with no one but The Beat 99.9 fm to keep me company, I decided to relax and enjoy the ...


3 years ago

Video: I Will Not Cook For You!

... Guys, watch out. Your days of  having food made from scratch by your girlfriend may very soon be over. This hilarious video lays ...


3 years ago

My Cousin Is Jealous Of Me?

... My boy-friend for 3 years jokingly asked me if I was ready to marry him. I told him to give me few days to pray about it. I love ...


3 years ago

Perfect

... Who is Mr. Perfect and what are the qualities that make him who he is? How tall is tall enough? How dark is dark enough? Would you ...


3 years ago

Letter To A Sister

... It is with great pleasure to writing  you, the prevalent tone amongst the female folk for so long now has placed my male folk in ...


3 years ago

It’s My Money, Not Your Son’s

... I always knew my paternal grandma never liked my uncle’s wife but I could not figure out why until recently. My uncle lives in ...


3 years ago

What’s Love Got To Do With It?

... As I head home to watch the All-Star dunk contest after a nice evening at the beach, I heard the  timeless lyrics of one of all ...


3 years ago

..Is It A Means To An End?

... TGIT is now almost like a weekly ritual constantly observed by my friends and I, it is only skipped if any of us have other ...


3 years ago

Unanswered …

... I’m at a stage in my life where I have no answers. A lot of questions though but no answers…. it’s slightly annoying. ...